Resources

We have a range of free, clinically informed downloadable guides and worksheets to support you with your sexual wellbeing.

They are not designed to replace professional support.

Sensate Focus Guides

Bodies, Health & Function

Structured exercises using mindful touch to help rebuild connection with pleasure and intimacy without pressure or expectation.

Sensate Focus - Vulva

A step-by-step guide for people with vulvas.

Sensate Focus - Penis

A step-by-step guide for people with a penis.

Sensate Focus - Non-specific

A version not specific to genitals - suitable for everyone.

Sensate Focus - Couples

A shared guide for couples working through sensate focus together.

Bodies, Health & Function

Erectile Dysfunction

Resources & exercises to help understand the psychological side of ED and begin working through it.

The ED Cycle

A visual diagram explaining the psychological cycle that maintains erectile difficulties.

Gaining & Losing Exercise

A guided exercise to help reduce performace anxiety around erections.

Vaginismus

Bodies, Health & Function

Practical resources to support you through dialator therapy and pelvic floor exercises at your own pace.

Guide to Dilators

A step-by-step guide to dialator therapy.

Relationships & Communication

Couples & Relationships

Resources to support communications, exploration and connection with a partner.

Sexual Activities Checklist

A tool to help couples explore and communicate about sexual interests and boundaries.

Looking for books, podcasts & creators?

Want to Learn More?

Visit our Further Reading page for curated collection of books, podcasts, social media creators and YouTube creators recommended by the Sex Actually team.