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Has My Vibrator Ruined My Ability to Orgasm Without It?
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 11/04/2026 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 11/04/2026

Has My Vibrator Ruined My Ability to Orgasm Without It?

If you have been wondering whether your vibrator has permanently changed your ability to orgasm without it, you are not alone. The reassuring truth is that your ability to orgasm in a range of ways is certainly not ruined. Here is what is actually going on.

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What Makes Pleasure & Desire Possible
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 23/03/2026 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 23/03/2026

What Makes Pleasure & Desire Possible

Pleasure and desire depend on a whole range of physical, psychological and relational conditions being in place. This article explores what actually needs to be present for desire and pleasure to flourish, and what gets in the way.

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Sexual Pleasure: Learning What You Like
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 23/03/2026 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 23/03/2026

Sexual Pleasure: Learning What You Like

Knowing what you like sexually sounds simple, but for many of us it's something we were never given permission to explore. This article looks at how to start understanding your own pleasure, why it matters, and why there's no right or wrong answer.

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What is Intimacy, Actually?
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019

What is Intimacy, Actually?

Intimacy is one of those words we use all the time but rarely stop to define. This article explores what intimacy actually means, beyond the physical, and why understanding it might change how you experience your relationships and yourself.

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What We Get Wrong About Intimacy
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019

What We Get Wrong About Intimacy

This article unpacks the most common myths about intimacy and why getting them wrong can quietly affect our relationships, our pleasure, and how we feel about ourselves.

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The Ongoing Conversation of Consent
Foundations of Intimacy, Relationships & Communication Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019 Foundations of Intimacy, Relationships & Communication Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019

The Ongoing Conversation of Consent

Consent isn't a box you tick once, it's an ongoing conversation that evolves throughout any sexual experience or relationship. This article explores what real consent looks like in practice, and why understanding it as a continuous dialogue changes everything.

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Understanding Sex Drive & Desire
Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019 Foundations of Intimacy Catherine Bryan 28/05/2019

Understanding Sex Drive & Desire

Sex drive isn't a fixed setting, it shifts throughout your life, your relationships, and even your day. This article explores what desire actually is, why it varies so much between people, and why understanding your own pattern of desire might be more useful than trying to match someone else's.

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