A Practical Guide to Using Dilators
If you have been recommended dilators, this guide is here to help you understand what to expect and how to approach the process in a way that feels manageable, at your own pace and on your own terms.
Getting Tested: Why It Matters and What to Expect
Getting tested is one of the most straightforward things you can do for your sexual health. This article covers who should test, how often, what testing actually involves, and where to go, in person or from home.
Desire Discrepancy in Relationships: When You Want Different Things
Wanting sex at a different frequency to a partner is a common relationship challenge people face. This article explores what desire discrepancy actually is, why it happens, and what can genuinely help.
Understanding Menopause & Its Impact on Sex
Menopause affects people differently, but its impact on sex and intimacy is rarely talked about openly. This article covers what is actually happening in the body, what can change, and what can help.
STIs: What Everyone Should Know
STIs are common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. This article covers what everyone should know, from how the most common infections are transmitted and treated to why regular testing matters and how to access support.
Sexual Health: What It Actually Means
This article sets out what sexual health actually means, why so many of us feel underprepared, and what good, inclusive sexual health information looks like.
Has My Vibrator Ruined My Ability to Orgasm Without It?
If you have been wondering whether your vibrator has permanently changed your ability to orgasm without it, you are not alone. The reassuring truth is that your ability to orgasm in a range of ways is certainly not ruined. Here is what is actually going on.
Sex and Body Image
How you feel about your body shapes how you experience sex, desire, and intimacy. This article explores where body image difficulties come from, how they affect sexual wellbeing, and what can genuinely help.
Understanding Vaginismus: The Physical, the Psychological, and What You Can Do
Vaginismus affects a significant number of people with vaginas, yet many have never heard of it. Your body is not broken and it is not a failure. This article explains what vaginismus is, why it happens, and what can genuinely help.
Anorgasmia: Understanding Difficulty Reaching Orgasm
Difficulty reaching orgasm is far more common than most people realise, and it affects people of all genders. This article explores what anorgasmia is, what contributes to it, and what can genuinely help.
Erectile Dysfunction: How to Talk to Your Partner and Face It Together
Erectile dysfunction affects relationships, not just individuals. This article is about why talking to a partner matters, how to have that conversation, and what it looks like to navigate ED together rather than in silence.
Erectile Dysfunction: Understanding the Causes & What Can Help
Erectile dysfunction is far more common than most people realise, and far more complex than it is usually portrayed. Understanding the psychological side, from performance anxiety to the body's own stress response, is often the first and most important step toward changing things.
Navigating Boundaries and Desire Within Faith
This article explores how to set boundaries that are genuinely yours, navigate different expectations with partners, and begin to untangle desire from guilt.
How Faith Shapes Sexuality
For many people, faith is one of the most significant forces shaping how they understand sex, desire and their own body. This article explores the complex relationship between religious belief and sexuality, with honesty, nuance, and without judgement.
Representation, Inclusion & Affirming Spaces
Feeling seen and represented in the spaces you occupy, whether online, in healthcare, or in everyday life, has a profound effect on sexual and emotional wellbeing. This article explores why representation matters, what genuinely affirming spaces look like, and how to find or create them.
Navigating Relationships as an LGBTQIA+ Person
Relationships bring their own complexities for everyone, but navigating them as an LGBTQIA+ person comes with a distinct set of experiences, challenges and joys that mainstream relationship advice rarely addresses. This article explores what that can look like and how to find your way through it.
Understanding and Managing Change
Change is one of the most constant features of our sexual lives; whether through illness, ageing, relationships, or simply growing into ourselves. This article explores how to make sense of the changes that affect your sex life and how to move through them without losing connection to your own pleasure and desire.
Understanding Sexual Orientation & Gender Identity
Sexual orientation and gender identity are two of the most fundamental aspects of who we are, and two of the most misunderstood. This article offers a clear, inclusive introduction to what these terms mean, how they differ, and why the language we use to talk about them matters.
Adapting Sex after Injury or Illness
Adapting your sex life after injury or illness is about finding what works for your body now. This article looks at practical ways to approach intimacy differently, and why flexibility and communication are the most useful tools you have.
Sex After Injury or Diagnosis
A health diagnosis or physical injury can change your relationship with your body, your sense of self, and your sex life in ways nobody prepares you for. This article explores what that shift can feel like and how to begin navigating intimacy and pleasure on your own terms.